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Go On Your First Date Conversation

First date conversation So, you’re about to go on your first date. No matter what your situation is, it is normal to
feel a bit apprehensive about the matter. In fact, most people are. According to a survey
on match.com, 89% of singles get nervous before a first date. Here, this article will
cover topics to talk about on the first date to make it go more smoothly.

FIRST DATE CONVERSATION: I AM GOING ON A FIRST DATE AND I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO TALK ABOUT

SOLUTION ONE

Keep the conversation light. Where are you from? how many people in your family? Etc.

SOLUTION TWO

Try to find common interests. Music, television shows, sports, etc. 

SOLUTION THREE

See if you have the same values. Personality traits, causes, current events, etc. 

SOLUTION ONE

Keep the conversation light. Where are you from? how many people in your family? Etc.

ANIMALS: Animals are our friends! We should talk about them from a place of love and kindness. However, if your date is a dog person, for example, and you’re not, don’t be afraid to say so. This may be a deal breaker, but at least you will know the truth about your date.

WHERE ARE YOU FROM: Everyone seems to have something to say about their hometown. Whether it’s good, whether it’s bad, it keeps the conversation going. Noting anything special about your birthplace can bring up extra points because you are connecting through your roots, which is a part of discovering you.

FAMILY:Mention what type of family you have and if you have any siblings. Some people like to talk about what their family members do for a living, but you don’t have to on the first date. Others find it a private matter due to the precariousness of comparison. All in all, if you do choose to discuss family on the first date, you guarantee that you are opening up about something that is important and valuable to you, which fulfills a major aspect of dating someone new.

FAVORITE COLOR:Your favorite color says a lot about you. It says what type of mood you prefer and the type of ambiance. Helpful hint: if you read this and are still nervous for your date, try wearing your favorite color so you can have the topic as a conversation piece.

SOLUTION TWO

Try to find common interests. Music, television shows, sports, etc. 

TELEVISION SHOWS & MOVIES: When you tell your date what your favorite TV shows and movies are, talk about why you like them, and why watching the program is so special for you. This is a great topic because it is very broad. Also, movies and TV shows have the ability to make us feel safe, which is why they are safe to talk about.

MUSIC: Another broad subject to talk about. Everyone has a unique taste in music and it is important to share that with people you care about, like your date.

ANIMALS: Animals are our friends! We should talk about them from a place of love and kindness. However, if your date is a dog person, for example, and you’re not, don’t be afraid to say so. This may be a deal breaker, but at least you will know the truth about your date.

SPORTS:Sports is not something that is up everybody’s alley, especially the ladies, but if you do appreciate sports, ask your date to find out if they do, too. Sports bring people together for events like games and TV gatherings. What a wonderful way to connect!

SOLUTION THREE

See if you have the same values. Personality traits, causes, current events, etc. 

FRIENDS:Friends are an important part of our lives, which is why your date should hear about them! If you feel inclined, you can show your date social media of your friends and you, so you can make him feel included on the fun times with your friends. However, you do not want to rely on your phone too much for the conversation.

PASSIONS AND DREAMS:Following your dreams is sexy! Your date will think so, too. Do you like to travel? Are you interested in starting a band? Or, do you want to open up a restaurant? These are just some examples but the point is don’t be shy about what you want out of your life. By expressing what you want, you show confidence.

CAUSES:Poverty, homelessness, the Amazon rainforests. You name it! Your date will appreciate that you care about the world. Be honest about your involvement with these issues. Just remember, even simply committing to reading about them helps.

PERSONALITY TRAITS: There are 16 personality types out there and everybody has one. This project was created by Myers-Briggs and is based on introversion, extroversion, sensing, intuition, feeling, thinking, perception, and judgment. These personality types determine your compatibility with the person you’re with as well as which friendships you have. Additionally, the test also can be used to decide which job you should have or explains the one you have already.

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It may not be easy to meet someone new, but once you do, this can bring a new kind of joy in your life. I hope that you enjoyed this article and that it brings you clarity on how to have a successful first date. The way to ensure success on your first date is to simply be yourself. Always remember that!

HAVE FUN!

Living in the moment is the best way to capture humor because you are interacting with your date and making them look good. Allowing yourself to be a little embarrassing on the first date might lead to a train of sweet events where you and your date have awkward eye contact, for example, but then it ends up leading to an awesome conversation. Feeling embarrassed is okay, too. The best way to stop that feeling in it’s tracks is to talk to a family member or friend that you trust to make you feel confident and strong. They can also remind you of silly things that you like to talk about.

 

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